A starting point through your Sun signs
Attention to detail and concern for harmony may complement each other. Searching for an ever better option can also delay decisions and become tiring.
Consider Virgo's Adjust to the situation alongside Libra's Decide what you need in order to begin. Differences between Earth and Air are treated as different conditions to clarify when choosing, rather than as judgments of personality.
As romantic partners
As a starting point for a close relationship, consider Virgo's approach List possible corrections and begin with one issue troubling someone who will use it today. Before adapting to the other person, you can also share one thing you would enjoy doing together.
For Libra, add Put one proposal from the other person and one condition you want to retain on the same page as another starting point. If both approaches are difficult to satisfy at once, take turns proposing the first idea and asking about the conditions.
Sun signs are compared here. This is a reading for discussing the direction you want within a relationship, rather than a romantic assessment that assumes your actual Venus or Mars occupies this sign.
Making enjoyable time as friends
For plans with friends, Virgo could try asking Which changed conditions would prompt you to reconsider the plan?. You can also vary whose decision-making approach you use first according to the task.
From Libra, you can bring the question What needs to be decided before you can act?. Keeping the conversation about enjoyable possibilities separate from the discussion of actual dates may help you avoid committing on conversation alone.
Sharing the process as colleagues
From the perspective of Virgo, For work whose conditions change along the way, put settled points and points for review in separate columns.
From the perspective of Libra, Before starting, agree on the scope of this trial and the points where you will consult each other. In shared work, you can take separate responsibility for proposing ideas and checking the conditions for completion.
Alongside the signs, use actual experience and currently available time when assigning responsibilities. For your next task, record on one page the conditions under which both of you would call it finished.
What to ask again after a misunderstanding
Limit essential conditions to three and choose when an option feels sufficient.
When different proposals arise, ask which conditions each person considered first before choosing a conclusion. Put what mattered to the other person and what you can change on the same page.
For your next discussion, Which changed conditions would prompt you to reconsider the plan? and take turns asking What needs to be decided before you can act? as a way to compare how you each choose.
What an individual birth chart can explore further
Sun signs alone do not establish the actual angle between two Suns. Their degrees may be far apart in the same sign, or form a close conjunction across neighboring signs. A birth-date reading separately checks degree relationships involving the Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars and other planets, together with alternatives when the time is unknown. For your present discussion, Virgo's List possible corrections and begin with one issue troubling someone who will use it today and Libra's Put one proposal from the other person and one condition you want to retain on the same page can also be compared with both natal charts to explore where your uncertainty lies.