Your relationship
A direct drive forward and a flexible response to circumstances may support each other. If deciding always falls to one person and adapting to the other, individual wishes can become harder to see.
As romantic partners
Taking turns between being accommodated and yielding yourself can reveal the small wishes behind a gentle answer.
As friends
Alternating who invites and who chooses can turn attention from one person making all the arrangements toward what each of you enjoys.
As colleagues
Without fixing the roles of choosing a direction and adjusting it, recording changes in the same place can make differences in effort visible.
What each of you brings
Jia (甲) (A great tree): A great tree reaching straight toward the sky. A key theme is Aspiration・A sense of fairness・Leadership・Firm convictions.
Yi (乙) (Flowers and plants): Flowers and grasses blooming with flexibility. A key theme is Cooperation・Flexibility・Persistence・Sensitivity.