Your relationship
A drive toward a goal and an ability to read emerging signs may support each other. Wanting to wait until thoughts settle and wanting a direction chosen early can produce different times for a reply.
As romantic partners
Gently agreeing on roughly when to expect an answer can give room both to thinking time and to the wish to know the plan.
As friends
Beginning with something you can talk about can turn a quiet observation into something shared rather than a long silence.
As colleagues
Creating a way to pass along brief observations during the process can reduce the need for the decision-maker to wait until every thought is complete.
What each of you brings
Jia (甲) (A great tree): A great tree reaching straight toward the sky. A key theme is Aspiration・A sense of fairness・Leadership・Firm convictions.
Gui (癸) (Rain): Gentle rain moistening all living things. A key theme is Sensitivity・Wisdom・Dedication・A sense of mystery.