Your relationship
Patient support and attention to small feelings may help you find a place beside each other. Reassurance and holding back can sometimes be mistaken for one another.
As romantic partners
Adding what you would like now instead of ending only with “I’m fine” can help both of you distinguish ease from hesitation.
As friends
Even on a quiet day, describing a good moment can keep few words from being mistaken for little interest.
As colleagues
After checking the overall direction, a place to record detailed concerns can bring a view that took time to emerge back into the decision.
What each of you brings
Wu (戊) (Mountain): A great mountain standing steadily. A key theme is Acceptance・Steadiness・Trust・Your own pace.
Gui (癸) (Rain): Gentle rain moistening all living things. A key theme is Sensitivity・Wisdom・Dedication・A sense of mystery.