Your relationship
Careful expression of feeling and a calm way of receiving it may support each other. When the amount spoken differs, the feelings of the person at ease can be harder to see.
As romantic partners
Talking about something that made you happy can let both of you recognize the quiet feeling of the person already at ease.
As friends
Even in a familiar place, asking once about preferences can bring a newly enjoyed topic into an unchanged sense of comfort.
As colleagues
Hearing overall progress and then concerns about details can bring differences noticed on the ground into a calm decision.
What each of you brings
Ding (丁) (A small light): A small light illuminating the dark. A key theme is Insight・Depth of feeling・Concentration・Inner enthusiasm.
Wu (戊) (Mountain): A great mountain standing steadily. A key theme is Acceptance・Steadiness・Trust・Your own pace.