Your relationship
Both of you may cherish fine feelings and feel close in quiet time. Too much attention to the other person’s reaction can leave what you want to say inside.
As romantic partners
Asking about a troubling word without accusing its meaning can open a way for honesty within a closeness that assumes mutual understanding.
As friends
Consciously alternating listening turns can let each person finish their own story while still caring about the other.
As colleagues
Separating consultation time from focused work can use fine observations while protecting each person’s working time.
What each of you brings
Ding (丁) (A small light): A small light illuminating the dark. A key theme is Insight・Depth of feeling・Concentration・Inner enthusiasm.
Ding (丁) (A small light): A small light illuminating the dark. A key theme is Insight・Depth of feeling・Concentration・Inner enthusiasm.