Your relationship
Looking after the whole and tending the details may complement each other. Noticing less visible preparations can help keep small tasks from gathering on one side.
As romantic partners
Counting small everyday tasks alongside major roles can let both of you share the work of making requests.
As friends
Taking turns with preparation before and after a gathering can keep unhurried time together from depending only on one person’s effort.
As colleagues
Recording both oversight and detailed preparation can let you fairly recognize time used toward the same goal, even in different roles.
What each of you brings
Wu (戊) (Mountain): A great mountain standing steadily. A key theme is Acceptance・Steadiness・Trust・Your own pace.
Ji (己) (Cultivated soil): Field soil nurturing life. A key theme is The capacity to nurture・Thoughtfulness・Practical capability・Versatility.